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the-real-orson | 2017-07-14 16:45:16 | 1,500,050,716 | null | ['match.com'] | 0 | 6na8ho | null | null | 29 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6na8ho/to_match_or_not_to_match/ | 7 | I've recently decided to foray into the (not so) wonderful world of dating after having been divorced for a few years. I've been checking out OKC and I like the overall feel of the site. Unfortunately, I haven't had much luck on OKC finding local women who are interesting to me. Plenty in neighboring states, but too fa... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | To match or not to match... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6na8ho/to_match_or_not_to_match/ |
Low-Cartographer-429 | 2024-06-15 18:17:56 | 1,718,475,476 | 0 | null | 0 | 1dgo2os | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1dgo2os/describe_the_creepiest_profile_pic_youve_ever_seen/ | 6 | I'm drawing a blank in response to my own question; but I was horrified to see a young child, with no adults in the picture, as a person's profile pic. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Describe the creepiest profile pic you've ever seen | 5 | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dgo2os/describe_the_creepiest_profile_pic_youve_ever_seen/ |
AcidAJ | 2020-06-23 05:07:59 | 1,592,888,879 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | he8giw | true | Venting | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/he8giw/im_pretty_apathetic_and_just_dont_know_what_to_do/ | 1 | As the title mentions I’m apathetic, I’ve never had a crush and recently I’ve been getting scared of the thought that I’ll just never find the one, I’ve matched and talked with one person on Tinder, and I’ve noticed that I have no idea how to be romantic, since I don’t really feel love, I can say something but there wi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m pretty Apathetic and just don’t know what to do.. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/he8giw/im_pretty_apathetic_and_just_dont_know_what_to_do/ |
Acceptable-Tax5742 | 2023-01-04 18:45:33 | 1,672,857,933 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 103bdw3 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/103bdw3/have_any_guys_here_ever_had_an_excellent_first/ | 1 | So long story short this happened a few years ago. Met this lovely girl and it went surprisingly well. We hit up a few bars and were kissing etc. She then text me saying shed love to see me again after the date was over. Get to the second date I took her to a different place and I was very uncomfortable for some reason... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Have any guys here ever had an excellent first date and then horribly messed up a second date beyond repair? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/103bdw3/have_any_guys_here_ever_had_an_excellent_first/ |
Ok_Offer626 | 2023-09-29 00:51:00 | 1,695,948,660 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16uxcff | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/16uxcff/my_sort_of_love_bomber/ | 1 | I 43f have been dating a 48m for a few weeks. Met him on hinge. Conversation was great, connection was good and we hadn’t even met yet. Very good communicator . We meet, and it solidifies that connection. He is very open with affectionate and positive words. I was almost afraid it was love bombing because he was vocal ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | My sort of love bomber | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/16uxcff/my_sort_of_love_bomber/ |
trash_compacter | 2015-08-31 13:09:11 | 1,441,026,551 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3j2xpb | null | null | 33 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/3j2xpb/what_would_you_consider_a_normal_date/ | 5 | This whole summer I've been sitting around 75-80% flake rate. And this is combining all avenues: real-life meeting/getting numbers and tinder/online. So if I set up 4 or 5 dates with 4 or 5 women I usually expect 3 of 4 or 4 of 5 to flake or cancel last minute/the day before/not show up. I get a better return with in-p... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What would you consider a 'normal' date flake/cancellation rate? What's your play when this happens? | 5 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3j2xpb/what_would_you_consider_a_normal_date/ |
GoatKeeperz | 2024-06-29 16:59:29 | 1,719,680,369 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1drfoy5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1drfoy5/did_he_lie_to_me/ | 1 | I was seeing a guy and although he wasn’t my usual type and also I had serious avoidance around physical intimacy, I worked really hard to overcome these things because he came across as a very good man with good intentions and was very interested in me. After we finally have sex, in the following days he texts me abou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did he lie to me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1drfoy5/did_he_lie_to_me/ |
These-Lengthiness-42 | 2023-08-13 11:15:24 | 1,691,925,324 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 15pw84w | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15pw84w/should_i_reach_out_again_to_someone_i_dated_but/ | 1 | Met this guy 2 months ago on Hinge. We clicked right away due to not only our shared goal to find a long term committed relationship, our inner self development work, and many shared views on multiple subjects (career, and social issues). We talked for 2 weeks because he was away for a charity event at work. We both ha... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I reach out again to someone I dated but split apart because of his lack of planning & my lack of understanding? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15pw84w/should_i_reach_out_again_to_someone_i_dated_but/ |
rubberiselastic | 2022-12-04 08:18:16 | 1,670,141,896 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | zc49u1 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zc49u1/how_to_have_female_friends/ | 3 | Just turned single And I’m choosing to not get back into online dating or get into any situation ship. But I would love to have female energy around me. My only problem is I struggle with female friendship, we always end up doing something sexually and that ruins the relationship. Any body on advice with male, female f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to have female friends? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zc49u1/how_to_have_female_friends/ |
NairoD4Christ | 2020-05-13 04:18:38 | 1,589,343,518 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | girqzu | true | null | 145 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/girqzu/if_youre_going_to_online_date_please_use_actually/ | 125 | Went on a tinder date for the first time in a long time(I don’t like online dating, quarantine brought me down to this). Me and a lady been chating it up for a few days so decided on going on a lowkey date since our state is pretty much closed. Met at a resturaunt, and when I first walked in there was only like two peo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | If you’re going to online date, please use actually pictures that look like you | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/girqzu/if_youre_going_to_online_date_please_use_actually/ |
red2999 | 2018-12-17 11:44:12 | 1,545,047,052 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | a6z499 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a6z499/cant_psych_myself_up_to_go_on_a_date/ | 2 | Met this guy on tinder and have been texting and snap chatting non-stop last couple weeks. He asked me to grab coffee with him and we are both super busy working (Xmas retail life) but the main problem I can’t find time is because I’m scared We get along great but I am just terrified it will be awkward or we will see s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can’t psych myself up to go on a date | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a6z499/cant_psych_myself_up_to_go_on_a_date/ |
zzfiji | 2019-03-23 06:18:58 | 1,553,321,938 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | b4fv8o | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b4fv8o/thinking_about_ending_a_casual_relationship_early/ | 23 | I just started dating this girl I met on Tinder. We have a lot of common interests, get along really well, have great conversations, sex is wild, chemistry is definitely there and I just find myself genuinely liking her a lot. But the thing is.. she established pretty early on that she’s not looking for anything seriou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Thinking about ending a casual relationship early | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b4fv8o/thinking_about_ending_a_casual_relationship_early/ |
markyb303 | 2014-12-01 22:24:52 | 1,417,472,692 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 2nzghi | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2nzghi/getting_an_online_date_you_can_be_proud_of/ | 1 | Hey everyone, Over the summer I traveled internationally quite a bit and used Tinder as a way to meet new people in the area and go on fun dates and learn more about each country I was in. I learned a lot about writing a good profile, what pictures to use, and how to qualify the other person I am considering meeting so... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | getting an online date you can be proud of | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2nzghi/getting_an_online_date_you_can_be_proud_of/ |
fi-nelly | 2024-06-10 12:15:31 | 1,718,021,731 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1dck1s4 | true | null | 84 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1dck1s4/ambition_as_interest_or_desired_quality/ | 14 | I see this frequently in OLD apps and it always gives me the ick. It feels like a uniformly negative thing to put down. As an interest it conjures visions of Angelica Pickles' mom or the guy from American Psycho. As a desired quality in a mate it feels like the person requesting is Andy Dwyer (first season) or someone ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | "Ambition" as interest or desired quality | 14 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1dck1s4/ambition_as_interest_or_desired_quality/ |
jakleSZN | 2023-02-26 08:56:40 | 1,677,401,800 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 11c9lma | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11c9lma/this_girl_only_wants_to_see_me_at_a_club/ | 5 | I met this girl on tinder a few weeks ago and we hit it off. I had seen her around town before and she recognized me, she ended up coming over the same night we matched and staying the night. When I asked to see her a few days later, she ended up canceling last minute so I backed off and didn’t talk to her for a few da... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | This girl only wants to see me at a club | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11c9lma/this_girl_only_wants_to_see_me_at_a_club/ |
Heraclitus94 | 2020-06-03 21:03:30 | 1,591,218,210 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | gw2lvx | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gw2lvx/25m_should_i_wait_for_the_right_one_or_lose_my/ | 28 | I'm a 25 year old male who has no dating experience. I have never had sex, never kissed a girl, never been on a date, never asked a girl out in person. As a kid I was bullied a lot and I have been fat all my life so none of that helped. I strike out all the time in dating apps and can't seem to score a date. I don't ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [25M] Should I wait for the "right one" or lose my virginity in a fling or with a prostitute? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gw2lvx/25m_should_i_wait_for_the_right_one_or_lose_my/ |
emojijohnson | 2020-11-15 15:38:03 | 1,605,454,683 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | junpwt | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/junpwt/whenif_ever_is_it_okay_to_talk_about_your_ex/ | 2 | I'm (26f) just getting back into dating after ending a 9 year relationship. Obviously nine years is a long time and most of my memories and past unfortunately involve my ex. I know for the most part it's just for the best not to discuss your ex at lenh with someone you're talking to, but what is the best way to do it w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When(if ever) is it okay to talk about your ex? | null | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/junpwt/whenif_ever_is_it_okay_to_talk_about_your_ex/ |
CountryActive9864 | 2023-12-25 00:36:44 | 1,703,464,604 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18q7pyn | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18q7pyn/i_cannot_breath/ | 1 | His response dashed my hopes, pushed me to block him. I'm a 21 F who connected with a 43M on a dating app, ( the age gap being my preference in the filter). I felt an instant connection and deep attraction to him, falling in love in the process. He was very handsome- George Clooney’s twin. Despite my efforts to stand o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I cannot breath | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18q7pyn/i_cannot_breath/ |
FlatChannel | 2019-10-01 04:13:17 | 1,569,903,197 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | dbnwew | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dbnwew/how_do_i_25f_ask_the_guy_im_dating_24m_how_he/ | 4 | I'm sorry for the essay Thanks so much for reading, I really appreciate it. TLDR: I'm dating someone who I really like but he's not super forthcoming about his feelings, and I convince myself that he doesn't like me. I'd like to be able to casually ask him how he feels/what he wants. How do I do this without coming acr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I (25F) ask the guy I'm dating (24M) how he feels about me/what he wants without coming across too strong? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dbnwew/how_do_i_25f_ask_the_guy_im_dating_24m_how_he/ |
Suspicious_Assist_43 | 2022-12-12 14:24:33 | 1,670,855,073 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | zk0hev | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zk0hev/help_me_plz/ | 0 | Okay- so I matched with this guy who lives an hour away from me. The mutual big city to do anything is equally 30 minutes in the middle. Our town are so small there’s nothing to do there. He asked to go out and I assumed we’d meet in the middle but he just goes my car is not working for a little so can you drive the HO... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help me plz | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zk0hev/help_me_plz/ |
piano_043 | 2023-10-17 22:55:21 | 1,697,583,321 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17aba3m | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17aba3m/confessing_my_love_for_him/ | 1 | m18. i’ve been going on dates with this guy i met on tinder and im literally so in love. im getting mixed signals from him, and im tired of being in the “talking stage” so i was thinking of sending him a text letting him know that id love to get more serious/be exclusive with him. is this weird? i’m new to dating, ive ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | confessing my love for him | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17aba3m/confessing_my_love_for_him/ |
21_Red_Guitars | 2024-08-14 19:45:25 | 1,723,664,725 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1esarvn | true | null | 74 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1esarvn/i_40m_matched_with_my_co_workers_soon_to_be_ex/ | 142 | Long story short, my co worker is in the process of divorcing his wife. He said she kissed one of his friends and he saw her do it. This was a year or so ago. They tried to work things out, but he just couldn't move past it. I had never met or seen her prior to matching on Bumble. We were both looking to just date casu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (40m) matched with my co worker's soon to be ex wife (34f) and we slept together. | 142 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1esarvn/i_40m_matched_with_my_co_workers_soon_to_be_ex/ |
Prince-Spring | 2022-09-26 23:13:04 | 1,664,233,984 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | xoz7ow | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xoz7ow/how_can_dating_be_fun_for_a_slightly_autistic/ | 1 | So, I have a soft form of autism and I think that's the reason why my dating life kind of sucks. You know, it literally effects the exact abilities that you need to appear attractive or even just interesting for others. I rarely feel like I want to hold eye contact with someone, sometimes it's hard for me to get, what ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can dating be fun for a slightly autistic person? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xoz7ow/how_can_dating_be_fun_for_a_slightly_autistic/ |
throwaway030816 | 2018-02-27 20:13:31 | 1,519,762,411 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 80pnwf | false | null | 58 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/80pnwf/23f_think_i_may_have_masturbated_for_the_first/ | 24 | So basically, I have had trouble with intimacy my whole life. I'm not a virgin, but I always thought I'd be a virgin forever. In college I was sick of being a virgin, so I literally met up with a guy I knew met on tinder, and had sex with him on the first date. I've dated around since then, and have had sex, mostly ONS... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | 23F Think I may have masturbated for the first time last night, horrible aftermath. Very confused... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/80pnwf/23f_think_i_may_have_masturbated_for_the_first/ |
sciencekidlol | 2020-07-23 02:54:51 | 1,595,472,891 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | hw7xex | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hw7xex/help_with_dating_in_the_gay_community/ | 1 | As a 25 year old gay guy who has been dating for the last 3 years I’ve noticed that it’s very difficult to find meaningful connections. In the gay community, it seems many men are super focused on body image and looks (being muscular/fit, masculine, dominant, etc). I feel that many gay men in the community my age mainl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help with dating in the gay community | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hw7xex/help_with_dating_in_the_gay_community/ |
Special-Ad6206 | 2024-05-27 05:26:38 | 1,716,787,598 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d1ka3j | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d1ka3j/cant_attract_the_people_i_want/ | 1 | I’m a 23 year-old male and have never had a gf. I have tried dating apps but only get likes from people I don’t find attractive. I have been going to the gym for years now and I would say I’m decent looking. I live in a town that is kind of small with nothing much to do. This means that there aren’t many places to meet... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can’t attract the people I want | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d1ka3j/cant_attract_the_people_i_want/ |
NathanielJHellman | 2021-02-14 06:25:18 | 1,613,283,918 | null | null | 0 | ljj2zp | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ljj2zp/i_keep_getting_ghosted/ | 5 | I have used apps like Tinder and websites like OkCupid and I keep running into the same problem. I manage to meet a girl after months of matching and trying to have a conversation with them, I get a date, and then after some amount of time I get ghosted. Is it my fault? Is there something I can do to market myself bett... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I keep getting ghosted | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ljj2zp/i_keep_getting_ghosted/ |
ChampionshipMany3416 | 2024-08-06 22:15:35 | 1,722,982,535 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1eluxkv | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eluxkv/dating_apps_never_go_anywhere_for_me_because_im/ | 2 | Every girl I speak to I’ll just ask her about her day, her hobbies what she’s into and stuff like that, I get good conversations with them at the start doing this but then at some point I think they get tired that I don’t say anything flirty Idk man I just feel like a creep talking about that stuff, I never had a lot o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating apps never go anywhere for me because I’m afraid of saying anything remotely sexual, what should I do? | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eluxkv/dating_apps_never_go_anywhere_for_me_because_im/ |
[deleted] | 2014-12-22 08:20:26 | 1,419,236,426 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2q1wvh | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2q1wvh/i_m_got_a_number_off_tinder_from_a_girl_who/ | 1 | Except neither of us are free until a week and a half from now. What do I do in the mean time to keep her interested? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (m) got a number off Tinder from a girl who agreed to get coffee | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2q1wvh/i_m_got_a_number_off_tinder_from_a_girl_who/ |
bloodthirsty_emu | 2021-02-18 08:38:35 | 1,613,637,515 | null | ['matches', 'swiped', 'online dating'] | 0 | lmi1gb | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lmi1gb/jaded_about_online_dating/ | 1 | Wondering if anyone else gets the same way. I (34m) have never really been on a date or had anyone show any interest. Very quickly it's a bit hard to meet people organically in real life (partially deaf so have trouble following conversations sometimes, also a bit scarred from being mistreated because I've always looke... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Jaded about online dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lmi1gb/jaded_about_online_dating/ |
hideninvisible | 2022-02-05 17:12:17 | 1,644,081,137 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | slbwr2 | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/slbwr2/whats_too_much_and_whats_okay_to_say/ | 6 | I met him through online dating. We have been chatting thru messages for about few 4 weeks now. We only had 2 in person dates so far which includes some level of physical intimacy. He seemed to be into it as I was. He was such a gentleman on both dates we had. He treated me like a lady, picking me up, taking me back, o... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What's too much and what's okay to say? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/slbwr2/whats_too_much_and_whats_okay_to_say/ |
Various-Rice-1828 | 2024-07-10 21:49:38 | 1,720,648,178 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1e08055 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e08055/need_advice_guy_went_mia_after_six_dates_still_on/ | 2 | Hey everyone, So, I matched with this guy on Bumble, and we went on six really awesome dates. The last one, we spent the whole day and night at his beach house, cuddling and kissing the entire time. But after that, his communication slowed down. He said he had some family problems he couldn’t talk about. I figured he w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need Advice: Guy Went MIA After Six Dates, Still on My Mind | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e08055/need_advice_guy_went_mia_after_six_dates_still_on/ |
Axelblood | 2013-02-28 13:25:12 | 1,362,057,912 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 19e78a | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/19e78a/me_21m_interested_in_two_different_girls_but/ | 1 | Alright this might be kind of lenhy but i really dont know what i should do. First i'll explain who both the girls are. One lets call her Jamie is a red head, very attractive, into gaming, comics, and pretty much loves the same kind of tv shows. I met her through work, and never really started talking to her untill two... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Me (21M) interested in two different girls, but confused on what to do. | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19e78a/me_21m_interested_in_two_different_girls_but/ |
clamchowduhh | 2019-10-17 12:07:01 | 1,571,314,021 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | dj5g2y | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 75 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dj5g2y/overweight_women_online_dating/ | 1 | Hello everyone. I just joined recently because this seems like a fantastic place to talk about dating and relationships and get advice. I feel very fortunate that there are resources like this with so many people to offer advice and support! Anyways, I posted the other day and I was pretty surprised at some of the top ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | overweight women online dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dj5g2y/overweight_women_online_dating/ |
Tianoccio | 2019-02-10 19:22:19 | 1,549,826,539 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | ap79tq | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ap79tq/im_a_30m_what_are_the_best_dating_sites_for_me_to/ | 1 | Long story short, I haven’t even tried to date for a while and now I’m just looking for a possible companion, what sites are my best bet to try/pay for? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m a 30M, what are the best dating sites for me to try? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ap79tq/im_a_30m_what_are_the_best_dating_sites_for_me_to/ |
YareYareDa_ | 2023-06-18 19:53:50 | 1,687,118,030 | 0 | null | 0 | 14cteni | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14cteni/i_want_to_give_date_apps_a_try/ | 1 | I've been trying to give apps a try but I feel like they just want to take my money. I get some likes, maybe some chats but in general just feel like a waste of time, is it or is just me? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I want to give date apps a try | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14cteni/i_want_to_give_date_apps_a_try/ |
ronmexico9 | 2018-12-01 01:04:08 | 1,543,626,248 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | a1yfbp | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a1yfbp/did_i_do_something_wrong/ | 7 | So I matched with a girl on Bumble a few days ago. We talked a little and then last night we set up a date for Sunday. We had a time and place picked out. After finalizing plans I told her I was going to bed and said goodnight, and she said good night with a kiss emoji. Today around 6pm I messaged her "hey how's your d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Did I do something wrong? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a1yfbp/did_i_do_something_wrong/ |
SwimmingSurprise | 2020-09-10 01:29:52 | 1,599,701,392 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | iptpw1 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/iptpw1/did_covid_ruin_my_shot_with_her_i_dont_know_what/ | 1 | I met her on Tinder 5 months ago when the pandemic first started. We texted a ton but never met up because of COVID. Eventually we had Zoom dates, long phone calls etc. I felt we had a great connection although I don't know if it was reciprocated or not. We talked about a lot of deep things and laughed a ton with each ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did COVID ruin my shot with her? I don't know what to do | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iptpw1/did_covid_ruin_my_shot_with_her_i_dont_know_what/ |
uglytruthshurts | 2020-09-09 18:02:14 | 1,599,674,534 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ipl294 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ipl294/untold_advice_for_women_about_creeps/ | 0 | To start with: females CAN creep on guys, but as a male, I cannot read women's train of thought and can only speak from a male perspective on how males, however, CAN creep on women; and yes, we all know, men creep and stalk more than women do. Hello, reddit Here's my short introduction; I'm a male in a serious relation... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Untold Advice for Women about Creeps: | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ipl294/untold_advice_for_women_about_creeps/ |
LiquidNitro89 | 2021-06-22 13:41:58 | 1,624,369,318 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | o5ng2i | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o5ng2i/any_point_to_send_another_text/ | 1 | Need some advice on this situation even though I think I already know the answer. I (31F) have been on 2 dates with M37 who I met through OLD. The 2nd date was this past Thursday and lasted for 6 hours, we got dinner, then drinks, and then made out for an hour before we both headed home. We had talked about making futu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any point to send another text? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o5ng2i/any_point_to_send_another_text/ |
Jelly-Cookiepatra | 2024-08-14 22:33:26 | 1,723,674,806 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1esetlt | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1esetlt/advice_for_my_widowed_father/ | 6 | Hi! As the title sounds, I (21) am the daughter of my widowed father (54). His wife, also my mom, passed away 15 years ago, and my dad hasn’t really dated since. I think he’s gone on a few dates starting when I turned 18, but nothing has come from that. I know that he’s been lonely, but we had a phone call today and he... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Advice for my widowed father | 6 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1esetlt/advice_for_my_widowed_father/ |
gealli | 2024-02-19 09:36:49 | 1,708,335,409 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1aujggt | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1aujggt/how_are_bumble_bff_and_bumble_dating_locations/ | 3 | I’ve (25F) been exclusively dating this guy (31M) for a couple of months. He told me he’d switched to the BFF mode in the app. When I recently checked his profile (which for me is his dating profile) it shows that his location has updated. TLDR; Can opening the app to use BFF update your location across all profiles? F... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How are Bumble BFF and Bumble dating locations connected? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aujggt/how_are_bumble_bff_and_bumble_dating_locations/ |
steakoutwhoa | 2022-02-07 00:18:43 | 1,644,193,123 | null | ['swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | smc335 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/smc335/whats_the_point_of_casual_dating/ | 5 | I'm having trouble looking at things from a different perspective. so I've been swiping through on tinder and shit and mostly everybody's looking for casual dates or nothing serious. I understand looking for friends and how platonic relationships might be important to that person, however - wouldn't casual dating just ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | what's the point of casual dating? | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/smc335/whats_the_point_of_casual_dating/ |
Morgendorrfer | 2017-07-27 03:38:19 | 1,501,126,699 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6ptdx9 | null | null | 16 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6ptdx9/should_i_text_him_again/ | 8 | Ok, so last Wednesday I met a really awesome guy from tinder and we had a really good date (ended with us making out). The next day we sent some sweet texts to each other about how we had a good time. We were supposed to meet up again Sunday. However, Saturday was his birthday and he drank too much and got hungover. We... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I text him again? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6ptdx9/should_i_text_him_again/ |
404Dawg | 2022-01-25 01:34:39 | 1,643,074,479 | null | null | 0 | sc1jo4 | true | null | 62 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/sc1jo4/how_to_answer_what_are_your_hobbies/ | 38 | I’m in my early 30s man, career focused, work from home, rarely leave, introvert (i know I’m changing that). But i hate this question. I walk my dog at the park? I go to lunch with friends? My post-work activities are mostly mental recovery lol What are some hobbies you can tell someone without being too disingenuous a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How to answer: What are your hobbies? | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/sc1jo4/how_to_answer_what_are_your_hobbies/ |
FireFrogFred | 2023-05-31 17:41:08 | 1,685,554,868 | 0 | null | 0 | 13wsth4 | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13wsth4/how_to_get_feedback/ | 0 | 33/M having a whole lot of 1 and done dates. I politely ask for feedback a week later and ALWAYS get a "oh no you were fine I'm just bad at texting". There's nothing to go with that and I understand they do not owe me the feedback. I'm not looking to change who I am but idk if I'm not flirty enough. How the heck do you... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How to get feedback | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13wsth4/how_to_get_feedback/ |
Theres_nothingtosee | 2024-07-02 18:57:12 | 1,719,946,632 | 0 | ['matched', 'swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1dttodc | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dttodc/first_date/ | 1 | Hi So I’ve never been on a date in my life (Im 18). Few days back I decided to download tinder just for fun. The first person I matched with- and we stared texting. I didn’t have any pictures of me displayed so I was surprised he swiped right on me He is really kind but also flirtatious in a really funny way. We decide... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dttodc/first_date/ |
[deleted] | 2013-06-17 18:09:39 | 1,371,492,579 | 0 | ['pof'] | 0 | 1gj2nc | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1gj2nc/could_someone_critique_my_pof_profile_male/ | 1 | [(http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=54286326)] I am looking for some advice about getting a little more traffic on my profile. Any input at would be appreciated! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Could Someone critique my POF profile? (Male) | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1gj2nc/could_someone_critique_my_pof_profile_male/ |
Sapceghost1 | 2020-10-04 11:02:12 | 1,601,809,332 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | j4x6qq | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/j4x6qq/what_are_your_odds_of_getting_past_the_first_date/ | 1 | I had another date last night and I thought it went pretty well, turned into a five-hour session and it went very quickly. Unfortunately, she didn't want to have a second date. I think this is maybe the 15th first date I've had in the past year which hasn't led anywhere and I wonder about the odds you guys have in term... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What are your odds of getting past the first date and do you ever wonder if you're doing something wrong? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/j4x6qq/what_are_your_odds_of_getting_past_the_first_date/ |
Worried_Plum1373 | 2024-02-11 13:50:18 | 1,707,659,418 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1ao8djd | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ao8djd/met_this_girl_on_tinder_only_had_one_date_so_far/ | 1 | Like this post says I met her on Tinder, so far it’s a casual relationship nothing serious. Only met her once, one date that has been successful. I am taking her out to dinner the weekend of Valentine’s Day. But on the actual Valentine’s Day I was wondering if I should get her something. My gut says no because it’s cau... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Met this girl on tinder, only had one date so far. Should I get her a valentines gift. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ao8djd/met_this_girl_on_tinder_only_had_one_date_so_far/ |
MartinSonreddit | 2020-04-08 10:43:03 | 1,586,342,583 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | fx4aoe | true | null | 314 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fx4aoe/does_anyone_else_think_tinder_became_unusable/ | 2,678 | Since passport is free for all my feed is filled up with woman from hundreds or thousand miles away, mostly those who are just hunting for Instagram followers. I have set a radius of 30 miles for a reason since I want to meet girls I might have a chance to meet but the radius does not apply to the radius which normally... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does anyone else think Tinder became unusable since Passport is free for all? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fx4aoe/does_anyone_else_think_tinder_became_unusable/ |
henker220 | 2023-09-24 20:17:18 | 1,695,586,638 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | 16r7k2m | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16r7k2m/where_do_i_go_to_meet_women_who_actually_are/ | 1 | I’m 25M and have no dating/sexual experience. I have no idea where to go to meet women who are single and actually looking (and mutually interested…). When I was in community college, I tried approaching girls on campus and I don’t say anything that could be construed as inappropriate or creepy (I just stuck to majors,... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where do I go to meet women who actually ARE looking to date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16r7k2m/where_do_i_go_to_meet_women_who_actually_are/ |
Noexit007 | 2018-03-31 15:44:49 | 1,522,511,089 | null | ['online dating', 'dating sites', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'happn', 'pof'] | 0 | 88jgl7 | false | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/88jgl7/dating_with_cancer_just_how/ | 20 | I am currently fighting cancer. Its stage IV but treatable, and provided treatments continue to work I should still live a fairly long life. It is not a type that would affect me being able to have children, or disfigure me, or cause any other such issues. I am still young (male in my early 30's), and apart from cancer... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating with cancer... just... how? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/88jgl7/dating_with_cancer_just_how/ |
thrw1726 | 2018-07-10 14:34:01 | 1,531,233,241 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8xpowc | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8xpowc/keep_getting_strung_along_fucked_around_cancelled/ | 2 | Hey there, Over the past few months I've been having prpblems with women, succinctly described in the title, and I have no idea. I'm a good looking, likeable guy with enough friends who all seem to love me (and I love em back). I've never been in a real relationship but semi-regularly go on dates with new people. Recen... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Keep getting strung along / fucked around / cancelled on. Is there a reason? (M 20) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8xpowc/keep_getting_strung_along_fucked_around_cancelled/ |
bossandy | 2021-03-04 00:15:17 | 1,614,816,917 | null | null | 0 | lx875i | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/lx875i/26_year_old_male_need_help_with_online_dating/ | 11 | Hello, I recently started using dating apps like tinder and bumble as well as others. I haven’t been getting any matches and I know it’s because on a scale from 1 to 10 I’m like a 5 and I know that tinder is mostly for physically attractive people. But I have tinder platinum which means I can super like people and send... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | 26 year old male, need help with online dating | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/lx875i/26_year_old_male_need_help_with_online_dating/ |
sanguinesecretary | 2024-05-08 20:00:18 | 1,715,198,418 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1cndux0 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cndux0/im_in_love_with_my_best_friend/ | 1 | I (28F) am in love with my best friend (26M). Oddly enough, we met on a dating app 3 ish years ago. We went on 2 dates. We kissed a few times but nothing ever came of it. There was distance. Our lives just didn’t line up. We were in very different places mentally and emotionally and I don’t think it would have worked. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m in love with my best friend | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cndux0/im_in_love_with_my_best_friend/ |
Suitable_Brain7650 | 2023-02-07 13:16:23 | 1,675,775,783 | null | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | 10w1kad | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10w1kad/matched_with_a_girl_texted_for_a_week_i_asked_her/ | 3 | Hi all, first time posting here. I (36M) have been out of the dating game for almost 5 years as I was getting my degree. I have went on first and second dates via OLD during that time, but nothing has developed to more than that. From time to time, I download the apps, match with few, go out, and when it doesn’t work, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Matched with a girl, texted for a week. I asked her out at the beginning but she wanted to know me first. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10w1kad/matched_with_a_girl_texted_for_a_week_i_asked_her/ |
Gozii55 | 2022-07-16 21:38:41 | 1,658,007,521 | null | null | 0 | w0r46o | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/w0r46o/need_help_with_awkward_dilemma_for_taking_profile/ | 7 | I have been doing online dating on and off for a long time and it's always been difficult for me to do pics that are interesting for a very specific reason. I have friends, but we live far apart and I don't take many pics with them, and I never ever ask people to take pics of me. So what happens is I take pics of mysel... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Need Help With Awkward Dilemma For Taking Profile Pics | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/w0r46o/need_help_with_awkward_dilemma_for_taking_profile/ |
fred9992 | 2024-02-09 17:17:23 | 1,707,499,043 | 0 | ['swipes', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1amta1a | true | Seeking Advice | 10 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1amta1a/conflicted_kinda_terrified/ | 1 | My marriage of 20 years didn’t work out. Divorce was final, late last year, and we’re getting along very well now. I can absolutely point to where things went sideways, family of origin / emotional immaturity stuff, and I’ve made a promise to myself to wait a year before officially dating. I’m actively working on mysel... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Conflicted, kinda terrified | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1amta1a/conflicted_kinda_terrified/ |
Justquestioning00 | 2023-04-05 22:22:39 | 1,680,733,359 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 12d012q | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12d012q/i_24f_reach_out_to_him_21m/ | 2 | Back in February I met this guy on Tinder. Both of us agreed to something casual and starting hooking up/hanging out. It seemed like a good situation bc we got on really well n had things in common. Two weeks ago he told me some personal stuff and said he was stressed. One of the reasons we were casual is due to our sc... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (24f) reach out to him (21m) | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12d012q/i_24f_reach_out_to_him_21m/ |
ginisninja | 2017-11-12 01:30:46 | 1,510,450,246 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7cchvm | false | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7cchvm/advice_ignore_or_explain/ | 4 | TLDR: guy I’m not interested in keeps messaging me on different social media. Should I ignore and if I respond, how to explain nicely I’m not interested? So I met this guy off tinder about 2 months ago. I gave him my number but he kept only messaging me on tinder so I assumed a one time thing. He was hatfishing, heavie... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Advice: ignore or explain? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7cchvm/advice_ignore_or_explain/ |
LedGopher | 2019-04-24 23:28:11 | 1,556,148,491 | null | ['OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | bh1kds | true | Venting | 31 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/bh1kds/a_special_place_in_hell_for_catfishers/ | 7 | My luck with OLD has proven to be perfect fodder for a dark romantic comedy. From plenty of ghosts to never getting a 2nd date, I'm starting to feel like perhaps another relationship just isn't in the cards for me. I have no trouble starting a conversation, if and when, a potential match is willing to engage, but the c... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | A special place in hell for catfishers. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/bh1kds/a_special_place_in_hell_for_catfishers/ |
Ornery_Chocolate_448 | 2023-04-03 23:59:04 | 1,680,566,344 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 12b2pj9 | true | null | 167 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/12b2pj9/im_not_dumb_but/ | 252 | Update New advice needed I sent a text ending it after a werif argument this werkend. It was long, heartfelt but let him know I had to go. It wasn't his fault, he's wonderful, but it's too painful to stay. I needed to do it text. I had never told him I loved him, but I did in the break up text. My last line was "I fell... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I'm not dumb but... | 252 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/12b2pj9/im_not_dumb_but/ |
cofcgirl531 | 2017-01-27 21:39:29 | 1,485,553,169 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 5qjwbo | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5qjwbo/confusing_signals_need_help/ | 1 | A guy I met on Tinder (don't judge) use to text me all day everyday before our first date. The first time we met in person we ended up spending three days together. After that we didn't text all day but normally for a few hours a day. Then we had our second "date" on Monday and we still talk everyday but a lot of the t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confusing signals, need help... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5qjwbo/confusing_signals_need_help/ |
kill3rkitty45 | 2021-06-04 08:15:59 | 1,622,794,559 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | nrzwm7 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nrzwm7/21mi_could_use_some_advice/ | 2 | I dont know what I want right now but know for sure I feel lonely, I just dont know how to fix that. There is a girl I'm friends with that I like hence us being friends but I dont think she want anything romantic with me and maybe even more important I dont think I want anything romantic with her, I kinda like just bei... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [21M]I could use some advice | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nrzwm7/21mi_could_use_some_advice/ |
Kittenonthego | 2021-12-26 12:40:48 | 1,640,522,448 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | row70d | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/row70d/when_should_you_ask_the_person_the_purpose_of/ | 5 | Hello everyone! I'm early in my 20s /F and im using Tinder to put myself on dating world. I wonder if they are serious looking for a real relationship or just casually dating. Should i ask the person on date/through texts their purpose of using dating app? And how long should i wait to ask? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When should you ask the person the purpose of using dating app? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/row70d/when_should_you_ask_the_person_the_purpose_of/ |
XK-Class | 2021-02-26 05:02:06 | 1,614,315,726 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | lsqek6 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/AskWomen/comments/lsqek6/what_are_some_good_conversation_starters_one/ | 0 | For Tinder | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | What are some good conversation starters / one liners to get women to text back? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/lsqek6/what_are_some_good_conversation_starters_one/ |
MattGaetzHater | 2023-06-25 14:24:45 | 1,687,703,085 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 14inkhp | true | Question ❓ | 242 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14inkhp/at_what_age_do_i_just_give_up_on_trying_to_find/ | 36 | I’m 22 now, I made it through college without being able to find a single woman interested in me. I have used every major dating app and many minor ones. I have tried multiple different social scenarios, clubs, bars, parties, social groups, activist groups, volunteer groups etc. to meet new people. Never once met a wom... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | At what age do I just give up on trying to find someone? | 36 | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14inkhp/at_what_age_do_i_just_give_up_on_trying_to_find/ |
JEjeje214 | 2024-09-11 22:16:12 | 1,726,092,972 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fems1z | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fems1z/when_to_give_real_phone_number/ | 5 | I got a Google Voice number at the prompt of someone I know citing privacy reasons against giving out actual phone number to a stranger. At what point should I give out my actual cell number, and how to I approach the subject? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | When to give REAL phone number? | 5 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fems1z/when_to_give_real_phone_number/ |
XenOz3r0xT | 2022-05-07 23:06:28 | 1,651,964,788 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | ukor1n | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ukor1n/online_dating_suggestions_tips/ | 0 | I'm 33 (M) and just recently had a 6 year relationship end with my ex. Prior to that I ended a 5 year relationship with another girl so I only ever had 2 "serious" relationships in my life. I know that being 30 things look a bit different now. I know stereotypically the dating scene is all just "single mothers, divorce... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online Dating Suggestions/ Tips | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ukor1n/online_dating_suggestions_tips/ |
forevertrueblue | 2022-12-28 16:48:18 | 1,672,246,098 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | zxedz4 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zxedz4/26f_hate_the_dating_game_not_sure_what_to_do/ | 3 | Never been in a relationship and this is becoming baggage/a red flag for people. They either baby me when they find out or it gets them off in a certain way. I don't find myself attracted to very many people and am not sure why. (I think I am just picky.) I also don't really identify with most of the roles the woman is... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 26/F Hate The Dating Game, Not Sure What to Do | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zxedz4/26f_hate_the_dating_game_not_sure_what_to_do/ |
DJnoiseredux | 2024-09-17 22:13:36 | 1,726,611,216 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1fjckl2 | true | Question ❓ | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fjckl2/how_long_without_a_reply_before_its_probably_over/ | 2 | The most successful matches I have had all involved a very high volume of messages, tons of back and forth. But maybe not everyone is like that? Someone just told me it’s best to wait 3-4 hours before messaging back. I don’t know. To me, that feels like a) I’m not interested and b) playing games. But I understand also ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How long without a reply before it’s probably over? | 2 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fjckl2/how_long_without_a_reply_before_its_probably_over/ |
Decent_Neat_9171 | 2023-07-29 11:53:15 | 1,690,631,595 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 15cqg27 | false | null | 12 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/15cqg27/how_do_you_handle_if_your_dating_history_is_an/ | 1 | Has your dating history been an issue, or at least odd, for a woman or partner? This has been on my mind for a little while now. Quick rundown: I went on a date with a woman I know, when I was on vacation a couple of months ago. We were spending time together after a date earlier that night, when she asked why I don’t ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do you handle if your dating history is an issue? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/15cqg27/how_do_you_handle_if_your_dating_history_is_an/ |
cs342 | 2023-12-30 10:09:41 | 1,703,930,981 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18uchwr | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18uchwr/is_it_even_worth_going_out_to_bars_alone_on_new/ | 1 | I (27M) got out of a serious long-term relationship at the start of the year, and I've only recently started to put myself out into the dating market again. I've had quite a bit of success from dating apps (I'm 6'2" and get around 2-3 matches per day on Hinge), but I find online dating exhausting and it's really draini... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it even worth going out to bars alone on New Year's Eve? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18uchwr/is_it_even_worth_going_out_to_bars_alone_on_new/ |
Ok_Part2634 | 2024-03-05 06:35:58 | 1,709,620,558 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1b6yphx | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b6yphx/why_do_people_lie_about_their_location_on_dating/ | 1 | Need to rant! Recently (in the last month or so) started talking to this guy. We had great conversation, great chemistry and everything else seemed to align as well. He told me he was currently travelling and so when I checked his location it showed that he was using travel mode for the city I live in. This didn’t seem... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do people lie about their location on dating apps?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b6yphx/why_do_people_lie_about_their_location_on_dating/ |
Own-Palpitation3573 | 2024-04-30 10:08:00 | 1,714,471,680 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cgp7vz | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1cgp7vz/what_do_you_guys_think_about_me_sleeping_with_60/ | 1 | I am currently a 23 year old lad who isn't bad looking and regularly goes to the gym so I would like to say I'm attractive on the eye. I have gotten into a situation where I'm speaking to a number of women above the age of 60 on dating apps who intend to sleep with me. Obviously all lads dreams is to sleep with older w... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What do you guys think about me sleeping with 60+ year old women? | 1 | 0.31 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1cgp7vz/what_do_you_guys_think_about_me_sleeping_with_60/ |
Throwthisaway173 | 2019-06-21 00:15:27 | 1,561,076,127 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | c33i3k | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c33i3k/tinder_advice/ | 4 | I have fairly obscure interests and finally found someone that shares some of those interests while on tinder, but I don't know what to say in the first message. I recognize one of the trails in her pictures and figured I could use that as a conversation starter, but I don't know how to do it without sounding cringy. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder advice | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c33i3k/tinder_advice/ |
anon64826 | 2024-07-23 09:26:04 | 1,721,726,764 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1ea3hqi | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ea3hqi/lets_just_be_friends/ | 1 | Hi so I [25F] woke up this morning to a message saying that he had a lot of fun hanging out with me on our date but it felt more like he was hanging out with a good friend than going on a date. He thinks I'm a great person etc. etc. but there was no spark and he doesn't want to lead me on. I appreciate the message as g... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Let’s just be friends | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ea3hqi/lets_just_be_friends/ |
_plexi_ | 2018-04-17 14:24:59 | 1,523,975,099 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8cwwo5 | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8cwwo5/going_on_second_date_great_conversational/ | 1 | Met a guy off Tinder messaged back and forth for a week and then decided to meet up. Day of went to a coffee shop and lost track of time because we were so deep in conversation. So there's definitely something there. However, I didn't feel any physical chemistry between us. But I'm willing to give it another shot so we... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Going on second date, great conversational chemistry but no physical chemistry? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8cwwo5/going_on_second_date_great_conversational/ |
[deleted] | 2021-07-18 15:21:00 | 1,626,621,660 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | omsiwu | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/omsiwu/double_messaging_on_tinder/ | 2 | i’m never one to double message on tinder, (if we haven’t already had a conversation for a bit) i’ve considered it before but have always found it just a bit too desperate seeming. i’m in a different kind of situation and am wondering if i should message again or not. the long version of the story is this: I have a jok... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | double messaging on tinder | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/omsiwu/double_messaging_on_tinder/ |
Alarming-Introvert44 | 2024-03-22 04:40:48 | 1,711,082,448 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1bkr3w6 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bkr3w6/am_i_going_about_this_right/ | 1 | Met a guy through hinge, we're both 25, been talking for 2 months, been on 6 dates, have had sex a few times, spent a night together. On the second date we talked about what we both wanted, i said i wanted something lonerm eventually, he said he wanted something with substance but wasn't in a rush for a label. The date... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am i going about this right? | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bkr3w6/am_i_going_about_this_right/ |
robindrummer | 2023-05-22 00:34:35 | 1,684,715,675 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 13obco4 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13obco4/34m_struggling_to_get_a_relationshipgirlfriend/ | 5 | So I'm really struggling to find a gf/relationship and would love some advice please. I'm a 34 year old man, 5'6 tall and don't think I'm too bad looking. Not saying I'm like a model but not bad. I'm a professional drummer and work in mental health services mainly forensic hospitals. I live in Devon England. Have my ow... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 34m struggling to get a relationship/girlfriend | 5 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13obco4/34m_struggling_to_get_a_relationshipgirlfriend/ |
Skallagrim96 | 2023-09-18 14:01:04 | 1,695,045,664 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 16lwdr4 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16lwdr4/do_women_find_it_odd_or_suspicious_when_a_guy_has/ | 1 | I'm exaggerating a little when I said no photos but all the ones I have are years old. For context I'm extremely introverted and don't like going out a lot so when attempting things like online dating its almost impossible for me to even get started because I have no photos of myself that aren't several years old. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do Women find it odd or suspicious when a guy has no photos of himself and doesn't really use social media? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16lwdr4/do_women_find_it_odd_or_suspicious_when_a_guy_has/ |
whywhywhy39 | 2021-06-08 15:40:00 | 1,623,166,800 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | nv6u7c | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nv6u7c/rapidly_losing_confidence_and_not_really_sure/ | 2 | I (27F), as of late, am really struggling with dating, dating apps, confidence/insecurity, etc. I've pretty much been on dating apps (off and on) since college and have never developed any substantial relationship from them. I've never had a boyfriend, so I guess I've also never developed any substantial relationship f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Rapidly Losing Confidence, and Not Really Sure Where To Go From Here? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nv6u7c/rapidly_losing_confidence_and_not_really_sure/ |
Holiday-Tea-2251 | 2023-11-08 19:43:10 | 1,699,472,590 | 0 | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 17qtrsd | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17qtrsd/newly_single_dad_reentering_dating_scene_how_to/ | 2 | TL;DR: seeking recommendations for single dad with kids to make new local friendships 36M here, married for 9 years, 3 kids from the marriage, 2 from ex-wife's previous marriage that see me as "dad" and spend the majority of their time with me. Ex-wife left me 3 months ago stating she was lesbian now (no hatred/judgmen... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Newly Single Dad Re-entering Dating Scene: How To Build Up Local Network? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17qtrsd/newly_single_dad_reentering_dating_scene_how_to/ |
AllMightyImagination | 2020-08-21 10:54:15 | 1,598,007,255 | null | null | 0 | idukw6 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/idukw6/girls_dont_lie_about_anime/ | 0 | Don't put down you like anime and then go huh, what's that after I ask if you have crunchyroll. You're just lying. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Girls don't lie about anime | null | 0.13 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/idukw6/girls_dont_lie_about_anime/ |
TotaIIyOriginaI | 2024-05-14 18:52:10 | 1,715,712,730 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1crzxdv | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1crzxdv/i_dont_know_what_to_do/ | 1 | My middle/high school years passed as me just e-dating girls, I settled for one (who was almost 10 years older than me) for seven years (we met irl at least) until she left me last year. I started e-dating someone else but months later she cheated and left without even being upfront about it. I feel like online dating ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I don't know what to do | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1crzxdv/i_dont_know_what_to_do/ |
banistersblue | 2024-09-01 20:51:56 | 1,725,223,916 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1f6ouif | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f6ouif/what_does_it_mean_when_a_guy_talks_about_himself/ | 1 | hey y’all. i just recently got back into the dating game and i’m trying to approach things differently this time around. when i was dating a couple years back, i felt i cut guys a lot of slack that they didn’t deserve. so now i’m trying to just take things as they are & not get stressed about it. today i went on a firs... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | what does it mean when a guy talks about himself the whole first date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f6ouif/what_does_it_mean_when_a_guy_talks_about_himself/ |
Perfect-Account3423 | 2024-03-28 07:41:16 | 1,711,611,676 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1bppt38 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bppt38/lying_about_my_age_on_tinder/ | 1 | Hey Guys, &x200B; So my dilemma is i'm currently single and being on dating apps for some time. I'm (19m) but haven't had much success on dating apps at this age. But if i advertise myself as 21 or above I get much better success . &x200B; Initially the mentality going into it was to just treat it as 'friends with bene... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Lying about my age on tinder | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bppt38/lying_about_my_age_on_tinder/ |
tulip1414 | 2022-10-30 18:42:18 | 1,667,155,338 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | yhmcec | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yhmcec/how_do_you_not_lose_hope_that_youll_find_the_one/ | 1 | I’m a 32F who didn’t date through most of my 20s because I was focused on helping my elderly parents and on my education and career. Now that I’m in my 30s I realize I want a partner and a family. I downloaded dating apps at the beginning of this year and have gone on about 4 dates this year. One of those ended because... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you not lose hope that you’ll find the one? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yhmcec/how_do_you_not_lose_hope_that_youll_find_the_one/ |
MongoStomp910 | 2023-10-04 09:52:03 | 1,696,413,123 | 0 | null | 0 | 16ziy9x | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16ziy9x/need_advise_on_a_tinder_match_asap/ | 1 | Ok so matched with a girl on tinder around a week or so ago. She is decently attractive. I’d say her pictures portray her as a solid 6.5-7. She’s been verified. Don’t know if that matters or even if it’s accurate. Haven’t had this app very long. But I kinda just threw a shitty one liner in there immediately after we ma... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Need advise on a Tinder match asap | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16ziy9x/need_advise_on_a_tinder_match_asap/ |
No7onelikeyou | 2023-12-01 17:13:05 | 1,701,450,785 | 0 | ['bumble', 'hinge', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 188h23n | true | Question ❓ | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/188h23n/what_are_your_facebook_dating_stories/ | 2 | I want to try Facebook dating I don’t have a Facebook. 34, M. I’m on Match, Hinge and Bumble. I don’t know why I have a feeling Facebook dating would be more popular. As far as someone may be on that, but not on Match etc. I live in a fairly big city, 500,000+ and there’s almost no one one Match, it’s very strange. Ple... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What are your Facebook dating stories? | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/188h23n/what_are_your_facebook_dating_stories/ |
Snoo-34321 | 2021-05-26 16:25:43 | 1,622,046,343 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | nll1na | true | Venting | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nll1na/i_give_up_part_ii_raising_not_lowering_my/ | 0 | After a good long think, I've just decided on a new strategy moving forward: being okay with being alone if I can't find someone I actually desire. I highly recommend it for other men who haven't had much luck online, if they can handle it. I've decided that lowering my standards, in order either to get some or to find... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I give up, Part II: Raising, not lowering my standards in response to failure | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nll1na/i_give_up_part_ii_raising_not_lowering_my/ |
Overall_Ad_1165 | 2023-12-12 16:19:41 | 1,702,397,981 | 0 | null | 0 | 18gpn06 | true | null | 85 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18gpn06/so_i_think_i_got_scammed_now_what/ | 7 | I am totally new to this whole online dating thing.. met a man working abroad at a oil rig.. We've chatted on and off for couple weeks and then things got more serious. Long story short, I ended up sending him couple thousand dollars and some inappropriate pictures. He kept making up stories to send him money and when ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | So I think I got scammed.. Now what? | 7 | 0.61 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18gpn06/so_i_think_i_got_scammed_now_what/ |
connorsean123 | 2022-05-26 23:48:04 | 1,653,608,884 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | uykwdh | true | null | 557 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/uykwdh/men_of_reddit_how_do_get_over_the_fact_of_being/ | 479 | I’ve been single for over 2 years. I’m in my early 20’s and I haven’t even been on a date in that two years. I feel like I’m wasting away the prime of my life being alone doing the same thing day in day out and have nobody to share my time with. I’ve been on many dating apps with no luck and I’m very shy when I go out ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men of Reddit, how do get over the fact of being single for so long? How do you change it? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/uykwdh/men_of_reddit_how_do_get_over_the_fact_of_being/ |
keeponchugginon | 2018-12-18 05:04:15 | 1,545,109,455 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | a77ytz | true | I Need Advice | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a77ytz/men_can_you_help/ | 2 | I’m 21 (F) and I’m dating a 29 yr old male. I’m going to try and keep this short. We met a couple years ago but I stopped talking to him bc I was younger and I was early in my college career. He always told me he had very strong feelings for me that were nothing like what he’d felt for anyone else. He’s been through a ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Men, can you help? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a77ytz/men_can_you_help/ |
Glittering-Carrot199 | 2021-09-11 20:25:43 | 1,631,391,943 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | pmeqq6 | true | Question | 94 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/pmeqq6/men_whats_your_motivation_for_staying_in_contact/ | 25 | Edit to clarify: continuing to text a woman from OLD after you start dating someone else exclusively, ie now have a girlfriend, as opposed to multi dating I’m talking about ^platonic^, not ‘plutonic’ (look it up) 😅 | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Men: what’s your motivation for staying in contact with a woman you met OLD even after you start dating someone else? If you are 100% honest, is it because you truly want her now as a platonic friend? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/pmeqq6/men_whats_your_motivation_for_staying_in_contact/ |
deankeaton83 | 2019-07-22 11:22:52 | 1,563,794,572 | null | ['dating site', 'pof'] | 0 | cgbypw | true | null | 51 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/cgbypw/why_must_you_play_i_dont_give_a_shit_game/ | 22 | I don't get it. Met this lady Friday night (40), I am 37 from PoF. The date went extremely well (or so I thought). She ended coming back to my place (something I never planned or intended) and staying over. In fact before we even left for my place I even said "We should either end the night now or come back to my plac... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Why must you play "I don't give a shit" game? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cgbypw/why_must_you_play_i_dont_give_a_shit_game/ |
IcHuCkChikenZ | 2021-06-05 04:58:54 | 1,622,869,134 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | nso2yc | true | Question | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nso2yc/question/ | 1 | As a 20 year old male who has never had a girlfriend should I risk it for the biscuit and try a dating app | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Question | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nso2yc/question/ |
Kaylee003 | 2016-10-23 14:41:49 | 1,477,233,709 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 58yttq | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/58yttq/guy_who_im_talking_to_starts_talking_about_his/ | 1 | Me 22yo, him 31yo. Matched with this guy on Tinder and exchanged numbers, so far we got along really well. Well suddenly he told me he got a weird match, which turned out to be a bot. But anyways he sent me what the bot said. Anyways then he asks if i have any tinder crazy stories. I say only crazy conversations THEN h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy who im talking to starts talking about his "smoking hot girl" ? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/58yttq/guy_who_im_talking_to_starts_talking_about_his/ |
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