def visit_or_create(started_at: nil)
      ahoy.track_visit(started_at: started_at) if !visit && Ahoy.server_side_visits
      visit
    end
def visit_or_create(started_at: nil)
      ahoy.track_visit(started_at: started_at) if !visit && Ahoy.server_side_visits
      visit
    end
if we don't have a visit, let's try to create one first