melissa:laphamsquarterly:The July issue of Newsweek, 2011 and the July issue of Cosmopolitan, 1955. “Why Men Buy Sex” (2011) / “Why Men Pay For Love” (1955)Never change, magazine headlines. Never change. (I’m trying to get into what I have to say about the Newsweek story but I’m a little exhausted. Seriously, I get secondary trauma waves from reading Melissa Farley, not from having fucked for money.)Have yet to read this but will when I get home if I can stomach it. So true that comment about what triggers secondary trauma. In a place of self care I may have to avoid the article.