 Photographs of Stefanie Strausser at her home in Watertown, New York,&nbsp;2010. The day after he returned from Afghanistan SSG Cody Anderson, Strausser's fiancé,&nbsp;blacked out from intoxication and assaulted Strausser,&nbsp;giving her a severely bruised eye and several lacerations. Anderson was later diagnosed with PTSD and bi-polar disorder, for which he was receiving treatment at Fort Drum.&nbsp; 