LIFEGOESON16_01_jmm.JPG Dwight Nathaniel coaches the McClymonds High School boys team during a game against Fremont High School in Oakland on Friday, Feb. 11, 2005. Story is about coaches and players who continue their athletic pursuits following the death of loved ones. Nathaniel's wife was killed in an auto accident about a year and a half ago. He was driving the car. Now, he says, his only saving grace since her death is coaching. It's kept him alive, he says. Event on 2/11/05 in Oakland. JAKUB MOSUR / The Chronicle Ran on: 02-19-2005
 McClymonds&amp;apos; boys coach, Dwight Nathaniel, has used the basketball court as a sanctuary. Ran on: 02-19-2005
 McClymonds&amp;apos; boys coach, Dwight Nathaniel, has used the basketball court as a sanctuary. MANDATORY CREDIT FOR PHOTOG AND SF CHRONICLE/ -MAGS OUT Photo: JAKUB MOSUR